Give strong, talented, entitled young men a huge pile of money and endless streams of adulation, and what do you get? Apparently you get athletes behaving badly. Most recently, this has been my hometown football team’s jet-propelled receiver, Tyreek Hill. Back in March we learned that Hill was somehow involved in a domestic abuse investigation. As it turned out, his three-year-old son had a broken arm that seemed suspicious. Medical personnel, it turns out, have pretty good radar at distinguishing between a fall on the trampoline and an arm twisted too far.
Wednesday, the Johnson County, Kansas DA announced that no charges would be filed in this case. You could practically hear this guy trying to get the bad taste out of his mouth:
We have a heightened responsibility to protect those individuals (who can’t protect themselves), and so it bothers us when we see something that’s happened to a child like this and we can’t do anything about it.
If I understand the DA’s words properly, he was basically saying that he thinks somebody hurt this child, but when dad says mom didn’t do it and mom says dad didn’t do it, what are you going to do?
And then yesterday, the plot turned in a bizarre way. A recording, secretly made by “mom,” Hill’s apparently permanent fiancé and the boy’s mother, surfaced. Why would this woman release the recording now? Why would she give it to a local TV news reporter rather than law enforcement? Why, when it seems to include among a lot of really unpleasant stuff, her admitting to lying to investigators, would she release it at all? These are all questions that remain to be answered.
Of course, the experts who populate the Internet have already launched into full opinion-spewing. Some condemn the Chiefs for ever drafting Hill since he had issues while in college. Some think that they should immediately fire the man. Some think that nothing should happen. Some blame a thuggish culture in the NFL. Some blame the fiancé. A few are so short-sighted that they can only think about what this means to the team’s chances next year, thanking their lucky stars that the story broke before their fantasy draft.
But who’s thinking about a three-year-old little boy?
Who is thinking about a boy who is apparently afraid of his father’s discipline? Is it the mother who has stayed with a man whom she knew was abusive for years? Chiefs fans have offered token thoughts about the child before charging ahead to opine on the weightier matters of football.
To his credit, the Johnson County DA does seem to be thinking about the child.
What happens when we treat a game as if it were life and death? What happens when we place strong, talented young men onto a level that far exceeds their real significance? Sometimes nothing bad, but sometimes this is what happens. And what happens to the child of that twisted psyche? Perhaps he’ll be a professional athlete. We can only hope.