Commit yourself to fellowship.
Some people find this hard to believe, but I am not the most social person on this planet. Hanging out with my buds just doesn’t come naturally to me. I like people, but I have to make an effort to be normally social.
About a year ago, a couple of friends invited me to join them every Thursday morning at 6:30 at Benetti’s Coffee Experience in bustling downtown Raytown. Let me review the obstacles to this idea. First, in order to attend, I had to get up at 6:00 a.m. on a summer day when I didn’t really need to roll out of bed before noon. Second, it took me out of my comfort zone as an anti-social sort. Third, I don’t like coffee, and the idea of paying better than $3 for a cup of tea seems silly. Still I went, and today I wouldn’t miss it.
There are currently four of us. Sometimes only three make it. Sometimes someone else joins us. We’ll spend an hour to ninety minutes talking over matters. Some weeks are heavily spiritual, while others are much less so. We do not solve the world’s problems or actually accomplish anything tangible.
But here’s the thing. We know that we’re each trying to live Godly lives in a sinful flesh. As different as we are, we are in the same situation. And I’m convinced that any of these men would try to help me whenever I am in need, just as I would try to help them.
Even for an anti-social guy like me, Christianity is not an individual sport.
- Are you naturally social or naturally unsocial? Does your inclination help or hinder your spiritual walk?
- Who are the Christians with whom you spend your life beyond the boundaries of the church building?
- Pray that God will help you to find or strengthen bonds of fellowship at every stage in your life.