Twice on Wednesday, I was told, “You’re looking really great” by two widely separated women. One of them has been a friend for many years. The is someone from my church whose husband I know much better. In neither case did I think they were suggesting anything beyond a simple and sincere compliment, but these comments got me thinking.
Perhaps you were not aware of this, but taking care of your body will typically make it look better. It’s true. And whether you like it or not, somebody who sees you working out might just see something in you that you’d not intended. It’s pretty hard to be around a bunch of fit people and not notice their bodies, right?
An article by Jonathan Angelilli takes on this problem in a big way. He points to what he calls the “pornification” of fitness, in which the fitness instructor becomes less an instructor and more an object of desire.
Your fitness can never be outsourced to a hot trainer, doctor, or pill. Its you that must do it, from the inside out. Its the very nature of the beast. That is why the source of all power comes from within is one of the core principles of TrainDeep. Saying you do it for me, Ill pay extra just doesnt work when it comes to organic systems and nature. Here we can experience the definitive limits of trying to monetize the natural and spiritual realms.
Certainly not everything in Angelilli’s article is something I can support, but he raises a great point. My work at improving or maintaining my body should be about making myself more fit for service and, as an added bonus, making me more appealing to my spouse. That’s really it.
So if you run into me at the gym or out on the street, just keep your eyes to yourself. I can’t help it if I’m looking really good.